A Tribute to my friend Alice

I met Alice when she moved into our neighborhood - I was in grade school. That was over 50 years ago and she is still my best friend. Our family use to go camping every summer and every once in a while we would take a friend with us. This is Alice and me clowning around, as teeny boppers will do, on the sandy beach at Silver Lake.

Can you match our faces to our feet?
Alice and Me On the shores of Silver Lake, Michigan
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Silver Lake lies near the cities of Shelby and Hart, on the western side of the State of Michigan. It is a state park and runs parallel to Lake Michigan with a two-mile stretch of beautiful sand dunes separating them. Fragrant pine trees run along the edge of the lake and are scattered through out the park. They follow the lake that becomes a stream that empties into the ever-changing waves of the BIG Lake. We tried to ride a rubber boat into it once, but the lake would never lets us in. It was probably a good thing. That was a trip when Bob Hubbell came with us.

Lying down on the top of the sand dunes and then rolling side ways all the way down until splashing into either lake was pure joy.

There is an icy cold stream that runs from the lake through the woods, to the road into the park, to past the park store. And that's as far as I followed it. The store was always the goal.

Alice and I did all the things that young folks do, at least in the '50's. We walked to school (1 1/2 miles) and told to each other, in great detail, our dreams from the night before. We walked down town (another 1 1/2 miles) passing Freddie's Doughnut store (with wide eye balls) and scouted out all the clothes, hats, fur coats, caramel corn shop, and the hot peanut store. We also had a Tin Roof sundae at the food counter in Woolworth's. What a great store!

We joked around to the boys that whistled at us, as they passed by in their "to die for" cars. Our favorite joke was: They would ask us if we wanted a ride and we would say, "Do you have any gas", and they would say, "Sure" and we would say, "Then step on it". And of course, we laughed and laughed as they went fuming by.

We use to sit on the front steps of my house in the evening and sing and sing. Alice sang harmony and I usually sang lead, neither one of us were/are sopranos. She belonged to the madrigal choir in Eastern High School.

My parents had an old victrolla, believe it or not. Only it didn't go round and round like it was suppose to. We loved the singer Frankie Lane and would put one of his records (78 rpm) on and then with our fingers turn it around and around. Our favorite would start out R o s e r o s e I love you and then get faster and then slow down and sometimes we would get it just perfect. [Rose rose I love you, with an aching heart. What is your secret now we have to part. East is east and west is west our worlds are far a part. I must leave you now but I leave my heart..etc etc.]

The poem, "The House With Nobody In It" was one of her favorites and now mine too. Thanks to the Kilmer family I found the poem on the internet and can also share it with you.

The House With Nobody In It
By Joyce Kilmer

Whenever I walk to Suffern along the Erie track I go by a poor old farmhouse with its shingles broken and black.

I suppose I've passed it a hundred times, but I always stop for a minute And look at the house, the tragic house, the house with nobody in it.

I never have seen such a haunted house, but I hear there are such things; That they hold the talk of spirits, their mirth and sorrowings.

I know this house isn't haunted, and I wish it were, I do; For it wouldn't be so lonely if it had a ghost or two.

This house on the road to Suffern needs a dozen panes of glass, And somebody ought to weed the walk and take a scythe to the grass.

It needs new paint and shingles, and the vines should be trimmed and tied; But what it needs most of all is some people living inside.

If I had a lot of money and all my debts were paid I'd put a gang of men to work with brush and saw and spade.

I'd buy that place and fix it up the way it used to be And I'd find some people who wanted a home and give it to them free.

Now, a new house standing empty, with staring window and door, Looks idle, perhaps, and foolish, like a hat on its block in the store.

But there's nothing mournful about it; it cannot be sad and lone For the lack of something within it that it has never known.

But a house that has done what a house should do, a house that has sheltered life, That has put its loving wooden arms around a man and his wife,

A house that has echoed a baby's laugh and help up his stumbling feet, Is the saddest sight, when it's left alone, that ever your eyes could meet.

So whenever I go to Suffern along the Erie track I never go by the empty house without stopping and looking back,

Yet it hurts me to look at the crumbling roof and the shutters fallen apart, For I can't help thinking the poor old house is a house with a broken heart.

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